“I think the challenge for us is that we live and breathe this pain daily. And that’s hard as this is to hear my aunt in pain. I carry that every single day. How the hell do they expect us to respond to a police officer who is biased against us to act professional and appropriate and kind when we know the one thing this cop wants to do is to hurt us. And it’s not easy. It’s not easy because people assume, Oh, You got to get over it.”